21 Tips for Mental Feng Shui

ONE .  Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully .

TWO .  Marry a man/woman you love to talk to . As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other .

THREE .  Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want .

FOUR . When you say, 'I love you,' mean it .

FIVE .  When you say, 'I'm sorry,' look the person in the eye .

SIX .  Be engaged at least six months before you get married .

SEVEN .  Believe in love at first sight.

EIGHT .  Never laugh at anyone's dreams. People who don't have dreams don't have much .

NINE .  Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it's the only way to live life completely.

TEN . .  In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling .

ELEVEN . Don't judge people by their relatives .

TWELVE .  Talk slowly but think quickly .

THIRTEEN! . . .  When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer, smile and ask, 'Why do you want to know?'

FOURTEEN .  Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk .

FIFTEEN.  Say 'bless you' when you hear someone sneeze .

SIXTEEN . .  When you lose, don't lose the lesson .

SEVENTEEN .  Remember the three R's: Respect for self; Respect for others; and Responsibility for all your actions .

EIGHTEEN .  Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship .

NINETEEN .  When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it .

TWENTY . . Smile when picking up the phone . The caller will hear it in your voice .

TWENTY- ONE .  Spend some time alone .